Why I Don't Believe in "The One"
Back in the day when I didn’t know the difference between fake and genuine interest, I thought that one day I would find someone who would deal with my weird but gorgeous self. I was under the impression that I was too much for the masses and that one day my weirdo equal would present themselves to me (in what manner was anyone’s guess) and we’d live a life full of adventures. Past me was right about most of the type of person I would be with, but the number was way off. One has never been enough for me. It doesn’t even feel right to have only one chip.
Non-Monogamy & Money
If you’re not on a budget, depending on your financial literacy, this can be very hard to handle. When you don’t have financial structures for your own money, it’ll be difficult to include others. You might look at your paycheck with pride and joy until you realize you have 3 consecutive dates that could put you in the red. There have been times when I wanted to jump into the arms of my partner until I checked my balance and noticed I couldn’t afford the Uber to their house. Being non-monogamous sometimes means knowing when you can’t afford to be with the ones you like.