The Importance of Being With Someone You Actually Like
It’s easy to find someone to be with but it’s more of a challenge when we find someone we click with. That connection shouldn’t be flimsy since we’re going to be seen with whoever we choose. It’s also particularly distressing when we look ourselves in the mirror and remember the cretin in our lives will still be there tomorrow. Being chosen ain’t glamorous when we hate the people we’re claiming. So why not be with the people we really care about? What’s the harm in enjoying the people we spend majority of our time with?
All About Affection
Affection is needed for good connections with our partners. Why? Because it’s the main way our partners show us how much they want and need us. By now, most of us have been in relationships with people who seem allergic to giving a hug or compliment. Being with those people can feel like a constant uphill battle since we don’t see nor feel the love. These types of interactions messes with our emotional bonds with partners and can bring us closer to the end of a possibly good connection.
Boundaries Are Your Protection
It’s too easy to fall in love and forget about ourselves. That’s why the Universe gave us boundaries. They don’t disappear when we bind ourselves to another, no matter how many times we do it.
Love Legacies
A prominent memory from my adolescence was debating with boys who had it worse in life. The variables would change weekly but the point remained: someone has to lose and I'd like to know who it is. There used to be a sense of pride that would swell up whenever I would reason my opponent into submission. But after living through some colorful romantic experiences, I started wondering how that mindset molded my outlook on relationships and love.