The Importance of Being With Someone You Actually Like
It’s easy to find someone to be with but it’s more of a challenge when we find someone we click with. That connection shouldn’t be flimsy since we’re going to be seen with whoever we choose. It’s also particularly distressing when we look ourselves in the mirror and remember the cretin in our lives will still be there tomorrow. Being chosen ain’t glamorous when we hate the people we’re claiming. So why not be with the people we really care about? What’s the harm in enjoying the people we spend majority of our time with?
Boundaries Are Your Protection
It’s too easy to fall in love and forget about ourselves. That’s why the Universe gave us boundaries. They don’t disappear when we bind ourselves to another, no matter how many times we do it.
Questions People Can Stop Asking
The strength it takes for me to answer these questions without either a scowl or with one sentence shows how much I've grown. But there are too many people asking me the same questions in the most life draining cycle ever. So I've comprised a cute list with answers they hopefully will remember for years to come. Feel free to take these answers for your own chorus of busy bodies in your life if the answers apply to you.
Love Legacies
A prominent memory from my adolescence was debating with boys who had it worse in life. The variables would change weekly but the point remained: someone has to lose and I'd like to know who it is. There used to be a sense of pride that would swell up whenever I would reason my opponent into submission. But after living through some colorful romantic experiences, I started wondering how that mindset molded my outlook on relationships and love.
This Country Will Not Break Me
America took off the mask of a progressive yet concerned nation to reveal the dirt we've swept under the rug for centuries.