Non-Monogamy & Money
If you’re not on a budget, depending on your financial literacy, this can be very hard to handle. When you don’t have financial structures for your own money, it’ll be difficult to include others. You might look at your paycheck with pride and joy until you realize you have 3 consecutive dates that could put you in the red. There have been times when I wanted to jump into the arms of my partner until I checked my balance and noticed I couldn’t afford the Uber to their house. Being non-monogamous sometimes means knowing when you can’t afford to be with the ones you like.